She left and he was happy about it.Stacey was always a nag,complained about everything,always looked at the negative side of everything.She made her five-year boyfriend feel belittled.He often wondered how he fell for her.He couldn’t even remember how they’d met.She was beautiful,charming and curves in all the right places.When she left,he couldn’t help but sing along to Pharell’s song “Happy” Sure he’d lost a trophy but it was also a lot of baggage to deal with so anyway,he is back in market.Well into his 30s,he should probably not consider ‘trophy wife’ qualities,maybe a ‘real wife material’
I thought to myself, Stacey is beautiful and has admirable qualities,so what more would a man want?Oh wait!There are more qualities they look for,depending on why they want you to be their partner.
If they want a trophy wife,Stacey fits perfectly.If a man wants you to be his for show off,he would look out for a ‘Stacey’. She is educated,comes from a well-off family,turns heads and well,she shines just like a trophy and everyone wants to hold her.
If they want a life time partner,they will often go for the ‘church girl’ although nowadays this breed is the worst.A naive man would go for a ‘church girl’ instead of a church girl,the genuine kind.The church girl not only goes to church on Sunday,but also on week days.She also has Bible classes and is actively involved,whether its in Ushering,fellowship,church meetings,she will always be present.Now this one would make a good life partner and that’s if she is a genuine church girl.
Finally,if they want you so you can pass time,well the ‘she’ and the ‘he’ may agree or one may be misled by the other which is often the case.When a guy is just interested in ‘getting his end way’ or ‘get lucky’ well he’ll say everything and anything you want to hear.If you fall into his box or ‘ingia box’ as they call it well he’ll get what he wants and you are done for.
My Walk with Christ 